Relationship between Job Interviews and Dating

I am going to be a little more biased in this topic and base it to the process of a guy approaching a girl he likes:

When going for a job interview there is always thing that have to be done prior to attending the interview eg: prior knowledge about the business and the position you are going to be applying for.
An interview for a job can be heart throbbing they make people go through many phases feeling nervous, some feel excited at the same time, scared(because you just have to do it cause you need a job). All these feelings depend on how the individual feels about the interview and that opportunity.(Can you tell the similarity of this situation and the one of approaching a girl??)

Well during the interview session the interviewers are always looking for characters which will make you a worthy candidate for the job(same thing a woman/girl will do). The qualities are confidence in the candidate, the interviewee has to be able to show that he knows what he is talking about and he is the right man for the job(Overconfidence does not work.. you will just come through as arrogant).The confidence you bring on the table comes from the balance of the knowledge that the interview is an opportunity but it is not the only option or opportunity - In this scenario you start talking to the girl who is your target, the girl wants to know if you are confident and are the right man for her(same as during the interview session).

It is been proven women are experts to figuring out easily if a man they are talking to lacks self confidence by only talking to them a few seconds or just studying their body language. Which is mostly the major deal breaker with the ladies. And as I said about the interview, the mentality you come up with on the table when you are approaching a girl should be the same as for the job interview. Approaching with the mentality that this is an opportunity to meet a girl you fancy but it is not the only opportunity and she is not the last girl in the world(Not the last job in the industry). This would help you with confidence and you will not look needy. Which is not good for you or the girl your talking to.

Having addressed all these issues i truly believe that many aspects of our life are connected to each other. Situations might be different be we react in the same way.

This is all from a heated Discussion with a female companion Mel

PS: Its not plagiarist since i referenced you.

The Million Dollar Question: Can guys and girls be "best" friends??

Whoever knows me will tell you, day in day out I always argue this point and my position is always on the NO.If some1 can show me a long term man to woman friendship without turning into love or lust then by all means please write to me.

The conclusion i come up with is due to daily experiences both my own and also other peoples' as-well. Anyone who disagrees with me would probably want to know why I say what I say.Well first of all just to clarify; this does not include the relationship of a gay guy and a girl...... Thats an exception to this rule/observation just like any other rule has exceptions.

Now coming back to my reasons/facts. If a guy and a girl claim that they are best friends then it i either one of the following scenarios:

Fact 1: They both like eachother and do not want to spoil the relationship in which case they will eventually end up hooking up anyway.

Fact 2:either one or the other likes the person they claim to be best friends with but the other person does not seem to show much interest in them so they settle as friend(next best thing) and also in which case might end up in this scenario for the group to hook up(less likely than the first one, but given the correct scenario it is likely).

Well those are a few observed facts that am going to leave you with. but the major cause of all this havoc and mayhem has been caused by sexual tension (as written on the Mx paper of the 27th of August 2010). In this era relationships(many) do not exist without sex.And if there is no sex then relationships do not exist.(Again its not what i believe... this is just another observed fact)...

Food for thought

Why exactly is chasing after a girl is called hunting??

Predators don't play

Talk about sleezy

After some research., scientists have discovered a certain similarity between prey in the animal kingdom and girls in the social spectrum, and it is a major similarity indeed. Take this into perspective now.

The prey, no matter which it is, need to be able to see not only what is in front of them, but also be aware what is around them. This special characteristic is to enable them to see when predators are lurking around. This is also more commonly known to be peripheral vision. On the flipside, men have very well oriented foveal view, they are more tunnel-visioned which means their eyesight is almost always focused to what is ahead or in front of them. This is a same characteristic that is observed within animals that are predators, those that are higher up on the food chain.

Peripheral vision allows for multi-tasking. For example, a gazelle might be chewing grass but at the same time can spot a predator from a distance who is slowly nearing beside it. This is similar to a woman talking to her friends or a guy while pointing to a guy that is beside or almost behind her without even turning her head. It’s about being aware of your surroundings. The dating life, much like in the animal world, is survival of the fittest. Shape up or shape out.

Due to these theories the conclusion can be drawn without any doubt that the similarity in a scenario of a lion preying on a zebra and a man going after a woman.... which in some cases too it leads to drooling from both man and lion.

Yezzir.


Consider this example too, of how often women escape the clutches of men who actually think they’ve got them where they want them. We’ll compare this with an analogy of a cheetah and gazelle. A cheetah is the fastest of all animals, it can reach blistering speeds which make it so deadly when it’s doing what it does best; chasing the prey. A gazelle, on the other hand… while not the fastest, just so happens to be fast enough and more importantly, is known to be great at escape. A cheetah will hunt a gazelle every day and many times, be unsuccessful. And why is this? Why is the fastest predator not always going to catch the gazelle? It’s simple. A gazelle has the numbers advantage, they can change direction much, much easier due to not moving so quickly and they have greater endurance when it comes to running. Cheetahs can reach their blistering speeds but not maintain it. Instead they tire themselves out, so take a sprinter and put him against a long distance runner in a race that will last over thirty seconds… and the sprinter’s chances of victory severely decline. In order to capture the gazelle, the cheetah must be willing to accept failure every so often, as it’s the only way to eventually succeed. Women can appear as they’re in the palm of your hand, only to them slip out unexpectedly. They’ve got the strength in numbers, they’ve got the sharper mind and they can certainly play the game for longer. I guess if you’re a girl, you’ve got to catch her quickly… ‘cause let her escape one too many times, and you just might not ever get her.


>> the chase is gud but there is no better feeling like catching a prey after a good old run around -- a lion would say the same thing or in this case a cheetah.

SHU!