Dealing with break ups -- How do people do it??

Well i aint no expert but i have been through a not so nasty break up... but this woman i loved with all i got.....(seriously i loved her at some point it got sad coz i was loving sum1 who did not love me back) Pathetic right??

U dnt have to tell me... Coz i know. But there was nothing i could do about it so i thot.

On that note. Doing nothing about it was the best way to go around it. I have a few steps that i took and i would like to share them. Feel free to add and comment from your own experiences but this worked best for me.

1. Be sure that you have done everything you can to make the relationship work and the other person still isn't showing interest. Because there is nothing worse than living with the regret of giving in too early

2. After that give yourself time, it is very hard this stage(your always going to want to speak with them(try resist the urge as much as you can. This comes with a alot of activities to distract yourself.(or you can just talk to some1else about it to put your mind at ease.
--- It may take a while don't fight it as much coz ur still going to love them for a while instead just admit to yourself you love them and give yourself more time...(meet new people) always fun

3. After admitting and not trying too hard to forget you will find yourself at ease eventhough it will take a while but the pain goes away all that remains is the good memories or and plus maybe occasional missing of some1 but that is okay do not beat yourself up about it. (Trust me I know)

oohh an additional step if u find sum1 u like, do not starve yourself of a chance to have a good time. The next person always speeds up the forgetting/pain-reduction process. yes am talking abt a rebound but u should atleast like the re-bound, wen u actually do it with the wrong intentions, its gonna bite u in the ass.

Thats my three step procedure.. not too perfect but those three things have worked wonders for me.

PS: Do not judge me.... I hope this helps!! :D